No man’s life is complete without any emotional drama (ladies), I have been through a phase of that aspect and I know It just got started, but before it starts let me give you a low down on how far I’ve gone, I will give you updates later.
My first crush was in primary two (we never said anything to each other until recently)
My second crush was in JSS1 (wrote a letter I never delivered, we never met eye ball to eye ball)
My third crush was in SS1 (you will read about that soon)
My fourth crush was Britney Spears (she shaved her hair and went to rehab)
Obviously I haven’t been doing so well with the girls, as long as it isn’t a prerequisite for success or an Olympic medal, I think I’m happy that way. I have always consoled myself with one saying though “I sha know I will get married one day” won’t i?
Let’s talk about my SS1 crush now, I was magnetized by her smile and her ever glowing eyes, she was one of the hottest girls in SS1. She was close to my best friend which I was a bit jealous of. I made up my mind and decided I was going to have a shot at her. the first step was to get her telephone number which is the simplest part of starting any parole. I sighted her sweeping her classroom and walked towards her, she swiftly raised her head and gave me a spooky look as if she knew what I had in mind, I walked past her and cowardly said well-done o. standing outside the classroom I was surprised i didn’t have the balls to ask for her number (must have been that weird look), went on a second trial and this time I was like
ME ;( cranky voice) hi, can I get your number?
SHE; sure (picks a paper from the swept dirt, collects the pen I was pointing at her and scuffles something on the paper and then hands it over)
ME; thank you
I was the happiest boy at that moment, her giving me her number already felt as if we were dating. On my way home, I had a feeling I was going to misplace the paper so I crammed the number and kept the paper. Two days later I gave her a call (lasted less than 30secs) and that was how it all began.
After weeks of saying hi, I decided to move things up a bit, my plan was going well, I had played the possibility in my mind over and over and it always end on a I do note. By SS 1 summer school I had developed our relationship to an extent we got comfortable with each other. SS2 we were close we became platonic, she could tell me the colour of her pants. I saw that has my green light and decided to step on the gas. I set up a date with her in the school library (parole station) with the intent of asking her out. I met her in the library and we started to talk. At that point I didn’t feel like going ahead with my plan, not that I cared less or anything but because I was scared she’ll say no and tell her friends about me (hot topic for the day). a fight then started in my head “should I, should I not, should I, should I not”, I decided to innovate, I then said
“I would like us to be best of friends, like you be my best male friend and I’ll be your best female friend”, exactly what I said and she replied “sure, no problem” days after the library date I noticed we were no longer as close as the pre-library date, our friendship then started moon walking, I expected our relationship to get better but it got silent. We then had a minor fight and stopped talking for like a term.
By SS 3 we were as close as handshake, we communicated on phone often and spent a lot of time together during breaks and we trek home together after school most time. SS 3 was mainly for exams, so much didn’t happen until after the exam. 4 days to our graduation, I made up my mind that I was going to ask her out for real. We were together in the science laboratory and I dropped the bomb shell. Can’t really recall how I did it but I can never forget her reply and how she said it.
SHE LAUGHED AS IF I WAS CHRIS ROCK AND SAID NO. I have never been that mortified in my life. I told her I respect her decision and whatever she says is OK by me (big lie) as I was about to stand up, she held my hand and said thank you, in my mind I was like “for what stupid, you say no to me and you can still smile and thank me”
Two weeks after that day, I didn’t hear from her which was very unusual, I guess we were both ashamed of the other day, though I was more ashamed. We patched things up later and we are cool friends today.
Do I still have a thing for her? Hmnnnnnnnn NOOO, but I don’t regret it because I wouldn’t have had a story to tell.
To be continued………………………………………..
My first crush was in primary two (we never said anything to each other until recently)
My second crush was in JSS1 (wrote a letter I never delivered, we never met eye ball to eye ball)
My third crush was in SS1 (you will read about that soon)
My fourth crush was Britney Spears (she shaved her hair and went to rehab)
Obviously I haven’t been doing so well with the girls, as long as it isn’t a prerequisite for success or an Olympic medal, I think I’m happy that way. I have always consoled myself with one saying though “I sha know I will get married one day” won’t i?
Let’s talk about my SS1 crush now, I was magnetized by her smile and her ever glowing eyes, she was one of the hottest girls in SS1. She was close to my best friend which I was a bit jealous of. I made up my mind and decided I was going to have a shot at her. the first step was to get her telephone number which is the simplest part of starting any parole. I sighted her sweeping her classroom and walked towards her, she swiftly raised her head and gave me a spooky look as if she knew what I had in mind, I walked past her and cowardly said well-done o. standing outside the classroom I was surprised i didn’t have the balls to ask for her number (must have been that weird look), went on a second trial and this time I was like
ME ;( cranky voice) hi, can I get your number?
SHE; sure (picks a paper from the swept dirt, collects the pen I was pointing at her and scuffles something on the paper and then hands it over)
ME; thank you
I was the happiest boy at that moment, her giving me her number already felt as if we were dating. On my way home, I had a feeling I was going to misplace the paper so I crammed the number and kept the paper. Two days later I gave her a call (lasted less than 30secs) and that was how it all began.
After weeks of saying hi, I decided to move things up a bit, my plan was going well, I had played the possibility in my mind over and over and it always end on a I do note. By SS 1 summer school I had developed our relationship to an extent we got comfortable with each other. SS2 we were close we became platonic, she could tell me the colour of her pants. I saw that has my green light and decided to step on the gas. I set up a date with her in the school library (parole station) with the intent of asking her out. I met her in the library and we started to talk. At that point I didn’t feel like going ahead with my plan, not that I cared less or anything but because I was scared she’ll say no and tell her friends about me (hot topic for the day). a fight then started in my head “should I, should I not, should I, should I not”, I decided to innovate, I then said
“I would like us to be best of friends, like you be my best male friend and I’ll be your best female friend”, exactly what I said and she replied “sure, no problem” days after the library date I noticed we were no longer as close as the pre-library date, our friendship then started moon walking, I expected our relationship to get better but it got silent. We then had a minor fight and stopped talking for like a term.
By SS 3 we were as close as handshake, we communicated on phone often and spent a lot of time together during breaks and we trek home together after school most time. SS 3 was mainly for exams, so much didn’t happen until after the exam. 4 days to our graduation, I made up my mind that I was going to ask her out for real. We were together in the science laboratory and I dropped the bomb shell. Can’t really recall how I did it but I can never forget her reply and how she said it.
SHE LAUGHED AS IF I WAS CHRIS ROCK AND SAID NO. I have never been that mortified in my life. I told her I respect her decision and whatever she says is OK by me (big lie) as I was about to stand up, she held my hand and said thank you, in my mind I was like “for what stupid, you say no to me and you can still smile and thank me”
Two weeks after that day, I didn’t hear from her which was very unusual, I guess we were both ashamed of the other day, though I was more ashamed. We patched things up later and we are cool friends today.
Do I still have a thing for her? Hmnnnnnnnn NOOO, but I don’t regret it because I wouldn’t have had a story to tell.
To be continued………………………………………..
